Cracking The Emotion Code

New York City is a metropolis of which many things can be said. One thing is certain; it never gets boring. A routine salutation can turn into a learning experience, as was the case with me earlier this year. The door to my office was open, and I was working late, as per usual. I had lots of paperwork to get done for one of my clients, and I was sorely lacking in both sleep and patience. A young associate was passing by in the hallway, stopped, and said, "How's it going?" I uncharacteristically snapped and said, "I'm having the time of my life!" "Someone has anger issues, " she replied. I apologized and told her the work was getting to me that day.

"You know, trapped emotions can make you sick. You need to free yourself," she said. I forced a smile and said, "I'll be fine when the trial is over and I get some extra sleep." She smiled back and left. I thought her somewhat enigmatic statement was a hint to go to see a therapist. In NYC, you're different if you don't have a therapist. The next day, she came to my office and handed me a copy of the book The Emotion Code by Dr. Bradley Nelson. "This book changed my life," she said. "I'm sure it will do the same for you. I keep a couple of extra copies to give to people who I think could really benefit from it. Everyone can benefit, but I'm not a book supplier! Keep it and let me know what you think when you're done." I thanked her and went about my usual business.

What I discovered was a book written by a retired chiropractor pushing an occult methodology to emotionally (and even physically) "heal yourself." This post will set forth my findings and hopefully serve as a warning to others not to fall for this occult trap. 

(The content of this post is derived from the many sources I researched, both in print and online. I take no credit for any of it. All I did was condense the information I obtained into a terse and readable post---Introibo).

Bradley Nelson: A Polytheistic Occultist

Nelson's life is not well-detailed, but what is known about him shows a man who is deeply involved in the occult. He was born and raised as a member of "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints," i.e., a Mormon. The Mormons are modern day polytheistic pagans, masquerading as "Christians." Their doctrines are wacky and convoluted in the extreme. The Mormon sect founder, Joseph Smith, Jr., was raised in a home teeming with the occult, and became a Freemason early in his young adulthood. He incorporated Masonic doctrines with his own lies. He beguiled many into following him and making him powerful. Like Satan, he was a liar and a murderer, preaching violence and revenge to any that stood in his way.

Bradley Nelson was born in the early 1960s (approximately 63 years old as of this writing), and recounts that when he was 13, his parents took him to an "old timer holistic physician" which allegedly cured him and made him want to be a "holistic doctor" as well. 

When I was 13 years old, I developed a kidney disease for which there was no medical cure. My parents, being open to alternatives, took me to see some old timer holistic physician, who practiced out on the edge of town in a trailer house. Their clinic might not have been much to look at, but I remember seeing chartered buses full of people from other states that would pool their funds and come to see them for their healing abilities. Within a few short weeks of starting treatment with them the severe pains that I was experiencing had faded away. My parents took me back to the medical clinic where all the tests were rerun, and I was pronounced healed. It was at that time that I decided I wanted to be a doctor, but not a medical doctor, rather, I wanted to be a holistic doctor that helps people to get well in totally natural ways, using the incredible intelligence that exists within the body.

(See medium.com/authority-magazine/dr-bradley-nelson-5-things-anyone-can-do-to-optimize-their-mental-wellness-435643af34e1; Emphasis mine). 

An "intelligence that exists within the body"? It will soon be shown he's not talking about either the brain or the natural ability of the body to try and heal (sometimes given the misnomer of "intelligence").  As a chiropractor, he developed the idea of "the emotion code." 

Nelson explains his occult principle behind the "emotion code:"

It’s been an amazing thing for me to understand how much of a person’s current mental state is a result of their “emotional baggage.” What I’m referring to here is the trapped emotional energy that people have from those experiences in their life that they would rather not have gone through. Those energies, which we referred to as trapped emotions, live in the body as little clouds of pure emotional energy. At least, that is how we look at it when we are using The Emotion Code. Getting rid of that emotional energy is the most important step you can take to living on a higher level, without that emotional baggage dragging you down to the lower emotional ranges.

For example, a man came in to see me who was suffering from severe lower back pain. Using The Emotion Code, I found that he had a trapped emotion of anger from about 20 years before. He immediately remembered what had happened. It was a work situation, and he recalled being very upset, indeed. Using the simple technique that we outlined in The Emotion Code, I was able to release his trapped emotion of anger. Instantly, his low back pain was gone. It was miraculous to him, but to me it was not unusual. 

Our emotional baggage causes much of our physical pain. The interesting thing about this man, though, was that he returned to my office couple of days later with more information. He said to me, “Dr. Nelson, my low back pain is still gone, and hasn’t come back. That was really amazing. However, when I first came in here I had another problem that I did not share with you. For as long as I can remember, I’ve basically been what you might call a rage-a-holic. I’m always yelling at my wife and my kids. I have to really be careful about road rage. I’ve been in anger management several times, and it has really helped me. But since you released that trapped emotion of anger from me, I feel totally different. I feel peaceful and relaxed. Things aren’t setting me off like they used to.”(Ibid).

Relationships are a pain in the neck (literally)

When you feel like your heart is going to break, when you are feeling deeply hurt or grief, the subconscious mind will build a wall around the heart, a wall that is literally made of the emotional energy that a person has trapped.

Miranda is a perfect example of how a Heart-Wall can interfere with your love life. She was an attractive thirty-eight-year-old nurse who came to me suffering from neck pain. During the course of her examination, she mentioned that she had not dated anyone in years and had no interest in having any kind of a relationship with men anymore. When I tested her, I was not surprised to find that she had a Heart-Wall.

Eight years before, Miranda’s heart had been broken by a man she had deeply loved. In an effort to protect her heart from experiencing that kind of pain and injury again, her subconscious mind had created a Heart-Wall.

In Miranda’s case, three lingering emotions had been trapped in her body for all those years, blocking her from creating another relationship. She had no idea that these Heart-Wall emotions were the major underlying cause of her neck pain as well. The pain in her neck had been going on for some time and was considered chronic and even a bit mysterious by the other doctors she had consulted, because nothing seemed to relieve it.

One by one, I released these trapped emotions that were making up the layers of her Heart-Wall. When I released the last emotion, her neck pain suddenly disappeared completely, and muscle testing revealed that her Heart-Wall was indeed gone. (Ibid: Emphasis mine). 

So, how does does someone know about "trapped emotions," and how does Nelson release them? That will be discussed below.

Nelson has "miraculous ancestors"

Nelson's paternal grandfather, John Alexander Nelson, Jr., was a Mormon "missionary" who allegedly received from God the "gift of speaking the Tongan language" where he preached. On Bradley's website, you can download a book he wrote about his ancestors. You will learn in  Heritage and Histories that :

• My great-grandfather is harassed by entities while lost in the woods (pg 14)
• ...my great-grandmother (a midwife) knew when she was needed in days of no phones (pg 29)
• A young missionary is physically attacked by an entity that wants to silence him (pg 72)
• A deceased sister returns as an angel with a message (pg 361)
• My grandfather sees a man walk on water (pg 66)

(See drbradleynelson.com/beliefs; Emphasis mine---there are more bullets in the list, I just chose five).

These alleged happenings are either (a) lies or (b) demonic manifestations. 

"Releasing Trapped Emotions"

If you're wondering how an intangible, immaterial emotion can be "trapped in your body" and "released," wonder no more. Nelson claims “trapped emotions” in the subconscious mind are the cause of at least 90% of pain and discomfort. The subconscious mind is “tuned into Universal Intelligence." He further states he is  a “specialist in energy healing” stating “everything is energy.” Humans are "beings of pure energy." Hence, like pagan, occult reiki, the emotion code is pagan energy healing repackaged.

As one source states:

The Emotion Code was created by Dr. Bradley Nelson, a chiropractic physician and holistic healer. Dr. Nelson began developing this technique in the early 1990s while working with patients in his clinic. He discovered that many physical ailments and emotional issues were linked to unresolved emotional energies trapped in the body. Through years of research and clinical experience, Dr. Nelson refined the Emotion Code process, which combines elements of ancient healing practices, such as acupuncture and energy healing, with modern techniques like muscle testing. Since its inception, the Emotion Code has gained popularity worldwide as a simple yet powerful method for promoting healing and well-being.

The Emotion Code is a holistic healing technique that aims to identify and release trapped emotions, which are believed to be the source of physical and emotional issues. Practitioners use muscle testing to locate these trapped emotions, asking a series of questions to determine the specific emotion, when it occurred, and where it is lodged in the body. Once identified, the emotion is released using a magnet passed over the governing meridian. This process is repeated until all trapped emotions are cleared, promoting physical and emotional well-being. (See wellmeright.com/glossary/emotion-code#:~:text=The%20Emotion%20Code%20is%20a%20holistic%20healing%20technique%20that%20aims,physical%20and%20emotional%20well%2Dbeing; Emphasis mine). 

Energy healing is occult/pagan and believes in the "life force" or "ki" or "chi" as it's called. The chi/ki belief makes Nelson's form of energy healing like Reiki. Here is the pagan mumbo-jumbo regarding chi/ki: "The source or cause of health comes from the Ki that flows through and around the individual rather than from the functional condition of the physical organs and tissues. It is Ki that animates the physical organs and tissues as it flows through them and therefore is responsible for creating a healthy condition. If the flow of Ki is disrupted, the physical organs and tissues will be adversely affected. Therefore, it is a disruption in the flow of Ki that is the main cause of illness.

An important attribute of Ki is that it responds to ones thoughts and feelings. Ki will flow more strongly or be weakened in its action depending on the quality of ones thoughts and feelings. It is our negative thoughts and feelings that are the main cause of restriction in the flow of Ki. All negative or dis-harmonious thoughts or feelings will cause a disruption in the flow of Ki. Even Western medicine recognizes the role played by the mind in creating illness and some Western doctors state that as much as 98% of illness is caused directly or indirectly by the mind.

It must be understood that the mind exists not only in the brain, but also through-out the body. The nervous system extends to every organ and tissue in the body and so the mind exists here also. It is also known that the mind even extends outside the body in a subtle energy field 2 to 3 feet thick called the aura. Because of this, it is more appropriate to call our mind a mind/body as the mind and body are so closely linked."  (See Reiki.org; Emphasis mine). This nonsense has ZERO scientific/medicinal confirmation aside from anecdotal claims. 

It involves a pantheistic worldview (i.e., the heretical belief that "god" and the world are one) and everything is united by energy to the "Universal Intelligence" as Nelson calls "God." However, aren't Mormons polytheistic and not pantheistic? Yes, but Nelson sees everything as part of the divine, his own derivation of "polytheism." The founder of Mormonism was himself into the occult, and Joseph Smith would have no problem putting an occult spin on his teachings.

Applied Kinesiology and Witchcraft

Unlike reiki, Nelson's brand of energy healing involves applied kinesiology. This should not be confused with kinesiology which is the scientific study of human movement, and completely scientific.

Applied kinesiology is totally occult. Who uses it? Nelson's practitioners, occultists, pagans, and in particular---Wiccans (witches). 

 

Notice what was stated above: Practitioners (of the emotion code--yes, you can get a certificate and make money! See discoverhealing.com/certification) ask a series of questions to determine the specific emotion, when it occurred, and where it is lodged in the body. Once identified, the emotion is released using a magnet passed over the governing meridian.

Let's break it down. 1. Asking a series of questions (yes or no questions) to determine where an "emotion is trapped in the body." 

How does it work? [applied kinesiology]

You can test different muscles, but commonly the shoulder is used, especially for beginners.

Holding one arm straight out to the side from your shoulder, it sort of locks in place. Having someone standing in front (or behind) your arm -- not your body -- they test by saying "yes," and then pushing lightly down on your wrist with two fingers. The arm will remain strong and in position. (If it does not, it indicates that clearing or recalibration are needed. Then try again.) Then the person tests by saying "no," and again pressing down on your wrist. The arm will fall away from the pressure. (If not, ditto.)...

The muscles remain strong in the presence of a "yes" answer, and collapse without strength in the presence of a "no" answer. The same is true in the presence of something healthful and something not good for the body. You can use this to as a divination tool to test for yes-or-no answers, just as you would use a pendulum. (See Wiccan Spirituality at  wicca-spirituality.com/applied-kinesiology.html; Emphasis mine). 

2. The emotion code practitioner passes a magnet over the "meridian." Why? The following source explains what I read in The Emotion Code very well:

Your body naturally has magnetic and electric fields. All your molecules have a small amount of magnetic energy in them. The thought behind magnetic field therapy is that certain problems happen because your magnetic fields are out of balance. If you put a magnetic field near your body, it's believed things will go back to normal.

Ions like calcium and potassium help your cells send signals. In tests, scientists have seen magnets change how these ions act. However, so far, there isn’t evidence that magnets have the same effect on cells when they’re in your body.

Magnets emit pure energy and are powerful tools we can use to fix imbalances that are in your energy field, and therefore cannot see. Virtually any magnet can be used when doing The Emotion Code. Using magnets in therapy can have profound effects on people's bodies. 

You are a being of pure energy. (pg.94) Your existence stretches further than you can see, because of your energy field. Each of us has an electromagnetic field. The EMF field of your heart is proven to stretch 8-12ft from your body in all directions...

In acupuncture, there are lines through your body known as meridians. These can be thought of as small rivers of energy that flow just beneath the skin. They follow very precise tracks that do not vary from person to person, just like each person has the same muscles in the same spots. Along meridians there are acupoints that can be treated for specific purposes. These acupoints often match up to where trigger points are in the body as well. 

The governing meridian is a meridian that serves as a reservoir of energy, which connects with and supplies all other acupuncture meridians. This is perhaps the most important meridian in the body. Because of its connection to all of the other meridians, it serves as the ideal pathway for our intention when releasing trapped emotions. A trapped emotion is energy, and to get rid of a trapped emotion, we need to overcome it with another form of energy. The governing meridian is the perfect window into the body for this purpose. 

As soon as you find a trapped emotion, you can release it. While holding the intention to release the found trapped emotion in your mind, simply pass a magnet over the governing meridian. 

(See encompasstm.com/blog/stuck-emotions-pain; Emphasis mine). 

It is evident that The Emotion Code is a mix of "good old fashioned witchcraft" through applied kinesiology and pagan/occult energy healing similar to reiki. (To be fair, other occultists and pagans use applied kinesiology, not just witches). As if this were not bad enough, it gets worse. 

Bradley Nelson: Practicing Spiritism

The video below is disturbing. It depicts Nelson doing his occult-based "emotion releasing" on a middle-aged woman in 2012. It begins with him asking the woman if her mother is alive or deceased. She says she is alive. He then asks about those relatives prior to her mother. They are all dead. Nelson does Muscle Testing, asking if the woman’s dead ancestors are present in the room, effectively an action that summons spirits, because he wants them to be there. According to Nelson they are present because "what else do they have to do" he asks as the room erupts into laughter. He apparently believes one can have emotions from ancestors in their body that need to be released. (Interestingly, he "cures" the woman using---wait for it---a refrigerator magnet).

He tells the story of how his daughter was using the emotion code on him, and she found a trapped emotion that originated with an ancestor 22 generations prior. She then felt the presence of the ancestor standing next to her. (These references to "spirits" are really about demons). 

Spiritism is contact with spirits through methods such as summoning, channeling, evoking or invoking, using a spirit guide, or various rituals. Nelson is clearly engaging in spiritism. Some spiritists may channel a spirit; that is, they give their bodies over to a spirit to speak through them or write though them (the latter is called automatic writing). This occult practice of giving yourself over to  spirit (i.e., a demon) is called channeling.

Here is the video: youtube.com/watch?v=1G5-0hwHeFA

Church Teaching on Occult Practices

The clear teaching of the Church can't be stated enough.

 "Let no one be found among you who sacrifices their son or daughter in the fire, who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, or casts spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead. Anyone who does these things is detestable to the LORD; because of these same detestable practices the LORD your God will drive out those nations before you." (See Deuteronomy 18:10-12; Emphasis mine.) 

According to theologian Jone, "Spiritism claims to be able to communicate with the spirit world and endeavors to establish such commerce with it. Although spiritism is for the most part fraud, still the intention alone to enter into communication with spirits is gravely sinful. Therefore, it is mortally sinful to conduct a spiritistic seance or to act as a medium." (See Moral Theology,[1961] pg. 100; Emphasis mine). 

While "spiritism is for the most part fraud," it sometimes is not. When Fr. Jone's theology manual was published in 1961, the Great Apostasy had not yet occurred. Most of spiritism at that time consisted of old ladies reading palms and pretending to contact spirits (or souls of the dead) for extra money; it was a fraud. Since Vatican II there has been an occult and pagan explosion world-wide, such that Fr. Jone couldn't comprehend at the time of his writing. While some spiritism is still fraudulent, I dare to say much--if not most---is real today. The direct and deliberate calling upon "spirits" (i.e., demons) to enter your life will rarely go unheeded.

Conclusion

The Emotion Code  is pure occult claptrap written by a Mormon spiritist. He has written several other similar books, and offers "certification" to become a "practitioner" of the occult "code." The book is endorsed by Tony Robbins, a  man who is also involved in the occult and making money off of it (he might be the subject of a future post). I emailed my colleague to warn her of the occult nature of the book. She never responded. Our work relationship remains cordial, but she is not as friendly towards me. Our job as Traditionalists is to warn others, even if they don't heed the warning or become upset with us.

Nelson's "code" is yet another example of the occult all around us. This should not surprise us. An Occult Invasion during a time of Great Apostasy makes perfect sense. Be on guard and pray. 

The Sufferings Of Our Lord And The Virtue Of Charity

 

To My Readers: This week, John Gregory writes about the Passion of Our Lord and the supreme importance of the virtue of charity. Please pray for John and his family; he has been sick. Feel free to comment as usual. If you have  a specific comment or question for me, I will respond as always, but it may take me a bit longer to do so this week.

God bless you all, my dear readers---Introibo

The Sufferings of Our Lord and the Virtue of Charity

By John Gregory

Then Jesus took unto him the twelve, and said to them: Behold we go up to Jerusalem, and all things shall be accomplished which were written by the prophets concerning the son of man.  For he shall be delivered to the Gentiles, and shall be mocked, and scourged, and spit upon: and after they have scourged him, they will put him to death; the third day he shall rise again (St. Luke 18: 31, 33).

 

“SUFFERED UNDER PONTIUS PILATE, WAS CRUCIFIED, DEAD, AND BURIED”

 

IMPORTANCE OF THIS ARTICLE

 

How necessary is a knowledge of this Article, and how assiduous the pastor should be in stirring up in the minds of the faithful the frequent recollection of our Lord’s Passion, we learn from the Apostle when he says that he knows nothing but Jesus Christ and him crucified. (1 Corinthians 2: 2) The pastor, therefore, should exercise the greatest care and pains in giving a thorough explanation of this subject, in order that the faithful, being moved by the remembrance of so great a benefit, may give themselves entirely to the contemplation of the goodness and love of God towards us.

 

First Part of this Article:

“Suffered Under Pontius Pilate, was Crucified”

 

The first part of this Article proposes for our belief that when Pontius Pilate governed the province of Judea, under Tiberius Caesar, Christ the Lord was nailed to a cross.  Having been seized, mocked, outraged and tortured in various forms, He was finally crucified.

 

“Suffered”

 

It cannot be a matter of doubt that His soul, as to its inferior part, was sensible of these torments; for as He really assumed human nature, it is a necessary consequence that He really, and in His soul, experienced a most acute sense of pain.  Hence these words of the Saviour: My soul is sorrowful even unto death. (Matthew 26: 38; Mark 14: 34) Although human nature was united to the Divine Person, He felt the bitterness of His Passion as acutely as if no such union had existed, because in the one Person of Jesus Christ were preserved the properties of both natures, human and divine; and therefore what was passible and mortal remained passible and mortal; while what was impassible and immortal, that is, His Divine Nature, continued impassible and immortal. (COT p. 50 – 51)

 

Patience and Joy under Continued Affliction

 

We must remember that if by prayers and supplications we are not delivered from evil, we should endure our afflictions with patience, convinced that it is the will of God that we should so endure them.  If, therefore, God hear not our prayers, we are not to yield to feelings of peevishness or discontent; we must submit in all things to the divine will and pleasure, regarding as useful and salutary to us that which happens in accordance with the will of God, not that which is agreeable to our own wishes.

 

During our mortal career we should be prepared to meet every kind of affliction and calamity, not only with patience, but even with joy.  For it is written: All that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution; (2 Timothy 3: 12) and again: Through many tribulations we must enter into the kingdom of God; (Acts 14: 21) and further: Ought not Christ to have suffered these things, and so enter into his glory? (Luke 24: 26) A servant should not be greater than his master; and Saint Bernard says: “Delicate members do not become a head crowned with thorns.”  The glorious example of Urias challenges our imitation.  When urged by David to remain at home, he replied: The ark of God, and Isreal, and Juda, dwell in tents; and shall I go into my house? (2 Kings 11: 11)

 

If to prayer we bring with us these reflections and these dispositions, although surrounded by menaces and encompassed by evils on every side, we shall, like the three children who passed unhurt amidst the flames, be preserved uninjured; or at least, like the Machabees, we shall bear up against adverse fortune with firmness and fortitude.

 

In the midst of contumelies and tortures we should imitate the blessed Apostles, who, after they had been scourged, rejoiced exceedingly that they were accounted worthy to suffer reproach for Christ Jesus. (Acts 5: 4) Filled with such sentiments, we shall sing in transports of joy: Princes have persecuted me without cause; and my heart hath been in awe of thy words; I will rejoice at thy words, as one that hath found great spoil. (Psalm 118: 161)

 

THE VIRTUE OF CHARITY

 

Charity is patient, is kind: charity envieth not, dealeth not perversely: . . . is not provoked to anger, thinketh no evil, . . . beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. (1 Corinthians 13: 4 – 8)

 

Who can behold the riches of God’s goodness and love, which He lavishes on us, and not love Him?  Hence the exordium and the conclusion used by God in Scripture when giving His commands: I, the Lord. (Catechism Of Trent [COT] p. 368)

 

PRAYER INCREASES CHARITY

 

In recognizing God as the author of every blessing and of every good, we are led to cling to Him with the most devoted love.  And as those who cherish a mutual affection become more ardently attached by frequent interviews and conversations, so the oftener the soul prays devoutly and implores the divine mercy, thus holding converse with God, the more exquisite is the sense of delight which she experiences in each prayer, and the more ardently is she inflamed to love and adore him. (COT p. 482)

 

ENEMIES AND THOSE OUTSIDE THE CHURCH

 

The Lord has also commanded us, to pray for those that persecute and calumniate us. (Matthew 5: 44) The practice of praying for those who are not within the pale of the Church, is, as we know on the authority of Saint Augustine, of Apostolic origin.  We pray that the faith may be made known to infidels; that idolaters may be rescued from the error of their impiety; that the Jews, emerging from the darkness with which they are encompassed, may arrive at the light of truth; that heretics, returning to soundness of mind, may be instructed in the Catholic faith; and that schismatics may be united in the bond of true charity and may return to the communion of their holy mother, the Church, from which they have separated. 

 

Many examples prove that prayers for such as these are very efficacious when offered from the heart.  Instances occur every day in which God rescues individuals of e every condition of life from the powers of darkness, and transfers them into the kingdom of His Beloved Son, from vessels of wrath making them vessels of mercy.  That the prayers of the pious have very great influence in bringing about this result no one can reasonably doubt. (COT p. 389 – 390)

 

FRATERNAL CHARITY

 

In order, however, that our prayers may have this power of obtaining all things from God, we must forget injuries, cherish sentiments of good will, and practice kindness towards our neighbor. (COT p. 496)

 

“God listens willingly to the Christian who prays not only for himself but for others; because to pray for ourselves is an inspiration of nature; but to pray for others is an inspiration of grace; necessity compels us to pray for ourselves, whereas fraternal charity calls on us to pray for others.  That prayer which is inspired by fraternal charity is more agreeable to God than that which is dictated by necessity.” (Saint Chrysostom)

 

In connection with the important subject of salutary prayer, the pastor should be careful to remind and exhort all the faithful of every age, condition and rank, never to forget the bonds of universal brotherhood that bind them, and consequently ever to treat each other as friends and brothers, and never to seek arrogantly to raise themselves above their neighbors.

 

Though there are in the Church of God various gradations of office, yet this diversity of dignity and position in no way destroys the bond of fraternal union; just as in the human body the various uses and different functions of our organs in no way cause this or that part of the body to lose the name or office of an organ of the body. (COT p. 509)

 

FROM A COMPANION TO THE SUMMA

 

Sharing the Divine Life

 

The unquestionably accepted axion, “friendship is rare,” would be a terrible indictment of the human race, if it were true.  But of course it is not.  Friendship is not nearly so rare as is appreciation of it.  These gloomy axioms furnish us with fine excuses when we run short of material for self pity, especially at times when our mouth is watering for a dreary session with ourselves.  Friendship is not rare among human beings because unselfishness is not rare among them; and unselfish love is the one fundamental for true friendship that might be come at with difficulty.

 

The nature of friendship

 

Surely the amateur burglar, striking up an acquaintance with an expert in his line, cannot be said to have true friendship.  He hopes to get something out of it, at least some expertness in burglary.  The girl who is an official fascinator, looking out for material comfort for the future, is certainly not a true friend of her men friends.  Neither of these is true friendship because neither of them is based on unselfish love.

 

Mutual benevolent love, on a common ground

 

Unselfish love means no more than the constant, effective desire to do good to another.  Briefly, it means that we have identified ourselves with another; his will is our will so that his good is our good, his happiness our happiness.  But unselfish love is not necessarily a guarantee of friendship, it is not the whole story.  The charming girl student may feel ever so kindly towards her professor of Ancient History and still fail resoundingly whenever he has anything to do with her examinations.  For friendship there must also be a common ground upon which two can walk; a requirement not at all difficult to meet.  We have common ground enough with men and women about us: we also worry about bills at the first of the month, we too are thrilled at football games; we have our secret, unrealized hopes, our sorrows, sacrifices, little triumphs.  In any one of these fields we can meet countless other men and women.  The difficulty is, can we meet them unselfishly?  Can we see in them our other selves?  Can we attain to that mutual, benevolent, unselfish love on this common ground and so be assured of real friendship?

 

The friendship of men: Its strength

 

Friendship would certainly seem to be worth having.  It means, at the very least, that through it we live, not one narrow life, rather we live two lives. A door is thrown open and we are admitted to regions that are proper to God alone, for by friendship we stroll into the soul of another.  It offers us completion for our incomplete, lonely human hearts, a fulfillment that is sought by every man from the beginning of his existence.  If friendship brought no more than this to a man, it might quite reasonably be foregone. An unlimited amount of cosmetics will not beautify an ugly face; it will merely hide its ugliness; nor will a football suit change the puny physique of a man. These additions are extrinsic to the face and the physique; and it is always true that only the intrinsic additions to man really perfect him.  In other words, the important thing about friendship is what it does to the individuals involved.  It brings out the best in every man, rather paradoxically it is true, by making him forget himself.  It opens up to him possibilities of sacrifice that he has formerly associated with heroism, with the sublime in the efforts of man.  Understand, now, by friendship is meant all human love: whether between man and man, woman and woman, man and woman—indeed all human love that escapes the taint of selfishness.

 

While friendship is a great comfort, it is not to be pictured in terms of dim lights, quiet corners and intimate whispers.  Rather it scans wide horizons with deep wisdom and is a source of enormous strength.  It shows us, for example, the stupidity of gloomy sacrifice; it tears away the veil of mystery from the cheerfulness, even eagerness, of love’s embrace of hardships.  Perhaps when we say that friendship is rare, we are really apologizing for ourselves, explaining that we are not strong.  At least, as soon as we make self basic, we have begun to corrupt sacrifice and coddle cowardice; we have begun to tear out something from the depths  of the human heart; for men have always looked, perhaps at times only wistfully, to sacrifice as the fullest expression of a generous heart.

 

Its frailty

 

For all its strength, comfort, sublimity, human friendship has about it the frail delicacy of old lace.  It is frail because its truth can never be clearly seen but must always be taken on faith, and because its task of surrender can never be fully accomplished. In a word, human friendship is never a rugged thing because of our inability to share our inner self.  The closest we come to sharing the truth of friendship is in our clumsy symbols of it; perhaps the closest we come to accomplishing its task is in the physical generation of children.  In neither case can we give ourselves utterly to another.  Fundamentally, the reason is obvious: we cannot give ourselves away utterly because we do not belong completely to ourselves. (A Companion of the Summa, p. 55 – 57)

 

FROM A TOUR OF THE SUMMA

 

The Virtue of Charity

 

1. Charity as a supernatural virtue is the friendship of man and God.  On God’s part, it is love, benevolence, and communication of benefits and graces; on man’s part charity involves devotion and service to God.  It was in charity that our Lord said to his apostles (John 15: 15): “I will not now call you servants . . . but friends.”

 

2. Charity is in a person as a determinate, supernatural, habitual power, added to the natural power of the soul, which inclines the will to act with ease and delight in the exercise of loving friendship with God.

 

3. Saint Augustine says: “Charity is a virtue which, when our affections are perfectly ordered, unites us to God; for it is by charity that we love him.”

 

4. Charity is not a general virtue, nor an overlapping of virtues; it is a special virtue in its own nature; it is on a level with the other theological virtues (faith and hope), and is distinct from these virtues.

 

5. And charity is one virtue, it is not divided into different species or essential kinds.

 

6. Charity is the most excellent of all virtues.  Faith knows truth about God; hope aspires to good in God; charity attains God himself simply, and not as having something to gain from him.

 

7. All true virtue directs a man to God, his ultimate good, his last end.  Hence, charity, which embraces the ultimate good simply, must be in the soul that has any true and living virtue.  No true supernatural virtue is possible without charity.

 

8. Charity therefore directs the acts of all the other virtues, making these serve to get man onward to his last end.  And thus charity gives to these virtues their determinate being as effective instruments.  Thus charity is said to be the “form” of the other virtues.

 

The Subject of Charity

 

1. Charity as a supernatural virtue resides in man’s soul, specifically, it resides in the appetitive part of man’s soul, that is, in man’s will.  For the object towards which the will tends is the good, and charity is the virtue which, above all others, tends to and actually embraces the ultimate good of man.  Charity lays hold on God himself.

 

2. This charity is not in us by our nature; it is supernatural. Hence, we cannot acquire charity by our natural powers.  Charity is in us by divine infusion, by in-pouring.  Saint Paul (Romans 5: 5) says: “The charity of God is poured forth in our hearts by the Holy Ghost who is given to us.”

 

3. Our natural gifts and capacities have no part in determining the quantity, so to speak, of charity in us.  For (John 3: 8), “the Spirit breatheth where he will”; and (1 Corinthians 12: 11), “all these things one and the same Spirit worketh, dividing to everyone according as he will.” Thus the measure of charity is not our capacity, but the will of God.

 

4. Charity can increase in us while we are in this life, on the way to God; that is, while we are wayfarers. If charity did not increase, we could make no progress along the way to God.

 

5. Charity increases not by having new elements added to it, but by growing more intense.

 

6. Not every act of charity increases the virtue of charity.  It is possible that an act of charity, done imperfectly, should mean no increase at all in the person who performs the act.  But each act of charity, rightly performed, leads to another, and ultimately to a favor of action which increases charity.

 

7. Charity may go on increasing and increasing; it is not possible to fix limits to this increase while earthly life endures.

 

8. A perfection of charity (which in no way marks a stay of limit to its increase) is found in those who give their whole hearts habitually to God, not thinking or desiring anything contrary to his love.

 

9. We may distinguish three steps or degrees in charity; it has its beginning, its progress, and its (nonlimiting) perfection.

 

10. Charity cannot decrease.  It is altogether lost by mortal sin, but it cannot be merely lessened in the soul.  Human friendship may grow weak and be diminished through the negligence of friends and their forgetfulness.  But charity is divine friendship; it depends on God, the infinitely perfect friend, who never grows negligent or forgetful; hence, charity does not decrease.  However, to neglect acts of charity and to commit venial sins, may be to dispose ourselves to lose charity entirely through mortal sin; only in this extrinsic way may charity be said to suffer decrease.

 

11. Once we have charity, we have with it no guarantee that, during this life, we shall not lose it.  The charity of the blessed in heaven (comprehensors) cannot be lost; the charity of men on earth (wayfarers) can be lost.

 

12. Charity is lost by mortal sin.  For whoever has charity is deserving of eternal life; a man who commits mortal sin is deserving of eternal death, that is, of everlasting punishment.  It is therefore impossible for a person to have charity and, at the same time, to be in the state of mortal sin.  One mortal sin drives out charity.

 

The Object of Charity

 

1. The object of charity, that towards which the act of charity is directed, is God, and our fellowmen in God. Says Saint John (1 John 4: 21): “This commandment we have from God, that he who loveth God love also his brother.”

 

2. Charity is love and friendship.  We have charity when we love God and neighbor, and wish for our neighbor the good of God’s friendship.  Thus, out of charity, we love charity itself.

 

3. We cannot wish to creatures less than man, that is, to irrational creatures, the “fellowship of everlasting happiness.” There we cannot love such creatures out of charity.

 

4. We are to love ourselves out of true charity.  For our love of ourselves is the standard of the sort of love we must have for others.  Says Holy Scripture (Leviticus 19: 18): “Love thy neighbor as thyself.”

 

5. Even our body is to be loved out of charity, for it is God’s creature to be used by reason in man’s service of God.  “Saint Paul says (Romans 6: 13): “Present . . . your members as instruments of justice unto God.”  We are not, however, to love the disorder of bodily tendencies which are the result in us of the primal fall.

 

6. We are to love our neighbor out of charity, even if he be a sinner.  We must hate sin, yet we must love the person who sins, wishing him repentance, pardon, and eternal life, for God’s sake.

 

7. Sinners do not love themselves truly.  They love only an apparent good in themselves, and they love external and creatural goods as things worth having for their own sake. And thus sinners miss the goal of charity which is endless happiness in God.  Sinners, therefore, do not love themselves, for, as Holy Writ tells us (Psalm 10): “He that loveth iniquity, hateth his own soul.”

 

8. We have the direct command of our Lord that we are to love our enemies.  In Saint Matthew (5: 44) we read: “Love your enemies do good to them that hate you: pray for them that persecute and calumniate you.”

 

9. We must, therefore, love our enemies in general, and we must also be ready, if God wills to put opportunity in our way, to show them, as individuals, the signs and offices of love.

 

10. We are to love God’s angels out of charity, for we hope to share with them “the fellowship of everlasting happiness”; this expectation is an element in the friendship called charity.

 

11. The fallen angels, that is, the demons in hell, cannot share the “fellowship of everlasting happiness,” and therefore they are outside the scope of charity.

 

12. Saint Augustine says: “There are four things to be loved: one is above us, God; another is ourselves; a third is near us, our neighbor, a fourth is below us, our body.

 

The Order of Charity

 

1. There is an order in charity, and God is the principle of that order.  God is to be loved out of charity, before all others.  The other beings that are to be loved out of charity are, so to speak, lined up in their proper places, subordinate to God.

 

2. Charity is active friendship and love.  It is therefore something more than good will, which is the condition and the beginning of friendship.

 

3. God is loved out of charity for his own sake, not on account of anything other than himself.  Yet in one way we can love God out of charity, and still have something else in view, as when we love God for the favors we receive or expect, but in such a way that these very favors are loved because they dispose us to love God the more.

 

4. Even in this life, in which we are wayfarers, we can have an immediate love of God, that is, love without a medium between lover and beloved.  We know God through the medium of created things; love moves the other way, for we love God first and then love created things for the love of God.

 

5. We can love God wholly according to our own creatural wholeness, but not according to the infinite wholeness of God.  For we are finite, and cannot compass infinity.

 

6. We need no test or mode or measure in our love for God.  Saint Augustine says we need only go on measurelessly loving God.

 

7. It is, in itself, more meritorious to love a friend than to love an enemy, just as it is worse to hate a friend than to hate an enemy.  But, considering that the love of a friend is likely to be less purely the effect of love of God, and also considering the distaste and difficulty that one must overcome to love an enemy, we see that it can be more meritorious to love an enemy than to love a friend.

 

8. To love God is more meritorious than to love one’s neighbor.  Indeed, to love one’s neighbor is a meritorious act only when we live him for the sake of God. (A Tour of the Summa, p. 201- 206)

 

Conclusion

Hopefully we have gained some idea on what the theological virtue of charity it.  It is a virtue which we receive from God and is directed towards Him.  The theological virtue of charity is absolutely necessary for salvation.  Charity is linked with, and impossible to obtain, apart from the theological virtues of faith and hope.  It is the love of friendship with God and must follow from or be infused with the theological virtues of faith and hope.  Selflessness is a quality of charity.  The loving of God above all things, and your neighbor as yourself for love of God.  True love seeks the good of the other, ahead of one’s own worldly needs.  It wills the genuine and especially the eternal good of the other.   Charity denies oneself for the salvation of the other when the opportunity arises.  It seeks not “what can I get out of this friendship” but “how can I help my friend”.  It is not a “me first”, but rather an “after you”.  It is also the love of one’s soul above the love of the body.  That is the stuff martyrs are made of. 

Faith, in part, is the knowing of God, hope is hoping for the eternal reward.  Most Protestants, if pressed on the issue, will nod their heads in agreement, that we must love God for salvation to be possible, but immediately thereafter teach faith alone.  Please pray for Protestants of good will that they seek and find the Truth; and pray for the Protestants of bad will that they become good willed before they die, so in eternity we may rejoice with them forever as authentic Christians that will be filled with love for the true God, the true Faith, themselves, and the Catholics and the Catholic Faith they formerly despised, forever.